Yes, You. You’re Annoying.

When we lived in The Big City and I rode public transit all the time and even more so, when we moved half an hour out of the city and I took a commuter train to work, listening to someone talk on their cellphone made me want to gouge my eyes (well, THEIR eyes, but I don’t want to get in trouble). I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having a cellphone, though the one we bought when we were house hunting was used again briefly at the end of my pregnancy and has since been a sad and neglected piece of ever-aging technology.We aren’t terribly important people and almost anything anyone would want to tell us can wait until we’re home.

But there’s a time and place for every conversation and the most annoying “What are you doing? Where are you?” conversation that happens a billion times a day could probably wait until you are off the very crowded streetcar or train. I still twitch when I hear a certain commuter train stop because inevitably, five minutes before we reached the station, half the train would take out their phones and convey to their loved ones that they were coming into “CLARKSON! … CLARKSON!… Can you hear me now? NOW? CLARKSON!” You do this commute every day and they pick you up every day. Trust that you will indeed arrive and if you don’t, your love one has the smarts to check the incoming trains list and will see that you are five minutes late. And they can wait for five minutes. Remember when we used to do that?

I realized that I am in the minority in cellphone use. People love their cellphones and everyone creates their own morality scale for what is appropriate use and what is not. Some people answer their phones at the table or during a concert, others would be appalled. Some people think novelty hip-hop is an appropriate ring-tone even if does tend to go off during business meetings, others would find that highly unprofessional. (Once I worked for a director in his 50s, a rough and tough man’s man – as far as theatre director’s go – whose new ring-tone was the Sex and the City theme. He had no idea what it was and no one bothered to tell him because it was too entertaining. I digress.)

But now there’s scientific proof that cellphone use is annoying – Why Overhearing Half A Cellphone Conversation is So Annoying. Thank you Cornell University.



Filed under This Is Me, Worldly News

3 responses to “Yes, You. You’re Annoying.

  1. Boy it’s nice to have scientific proof to support my dislike of loud public cell phone conversations.

  2. I saw an interview on tv about these findings. It totally makes sense. I just can’t stand hearing someone on their phone… drive me nuts. My personal favourite is when I’m in the break room at work, and someone is having a loud inappropriate conversation while I’m trying to eat my lunch. Argh!

  3. Actually you know I feel the exact same way. Cellphones are very annoying. I would know because I used to work for a telecom company (the one with the cute animals) LOL. I don’t use my cellphone much and am debating whether or not to change to a pay and talk plan again. I hate listening to other people’s convos and I really dislike it when you’re in an area that says “No cell phones permitted” yet they keep on chatting like they’re the exception to the rule.

    Anyhow, we probably are in the minority. Can you imagine what would happen if everyone had to walk around with a quarter in their pocket (well now 2 quarters) instead of a cellphone? GASP! How would we survive?! HAHAH

    Too funny about the SATC ring tone!

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s